Frequently Asked Questions (for YouTube)
Is it J or Jacqueline?
My name is Jacqueline, but socially I go by "J." I primarily use "Jacqueline" in my professional life.

How old are you?
I’m in my late 30s (I’ll update this when that changes). I know people sometimes ask because they feel uncomfortable learning about relationship and life topics from someone they perceive as young. Regardless of whether you consider late-30s to be young, please know that anything I share is just my own perspective, and I invite you to come to your own conclusions on any of the topics I talk about on my YouTube channel.

Can I get your advice on my situation?
Please understand that I am not a psychiatric professional or a trained counselor, so there are some topics on which it would be irresponsible of me to presume I could offer advice. Furthermore, even when it comes to advice about less dire situations, if I were to give advice to everyone who asked, I’d spend a significant amount of my time doing so--especially since I want to be thoughtful and thorough. I only have so much time and energy, so while I do sincerely care about the well-being of all people, I'm afraid I can't type out text-based relationship advice for everyone who asks. I greatly appreciate you respecting my boundary on this.

But I really, really need help.
If you are in dire need of help, then I have to emphasize again that I am unqualified to support you in the way that would be needed and necessary. Please consider seeing a mental health professional in your area, and if finances are an obstacle, know that some mental health professionals will work with you on a sliding scale of payment. You can also find someone who is well-versed in matters pertaining to polyamory and other non-traditional relationships. It may take some digging to find the right person, but I encourage you to start here:

Can we chat? / What’s your Facebook account? / Snapchat? / WhatsApp?
While I periodically post on Instagram and Twitter, I choose not to spend much time on social media beyond that. I don't engage much (if at all) over DMs, and I look at comments in batches, slowly. I don't have/use Facebook, Snapchat, or WhatsApp. Thank you for understanding! 

Will you show up on my channel / podcast / show?
I'm open to discussing media invitations. The more information you can provide in advance about the nature of your invitation, the better. Please see my contact page for details. 
Contact
For publishing-related business inquiries, please contact Russell Galen of Scovil Galen Ghosh Literary Agency at russellgalen@sgglit.com.