Frequently Asked Questions (for YouTube)
Is it J or Jacqueline?
My name is Jacqueline, but socially I go by "J." I primarily use "Jacqueline" in my professional life.

How old are you?
I’m in my late 30s (I’ll update this when that changes). I know people sometimes ask because they feel uncomfortable learning about relationship and life topics from someone they perceive as young. Regardless of whether you consider late-30s to be young, please know that anything I share is just my own perspective, and I invite you to come to your own conclusions on any of the topics I talk about on my YouTube channel.

Can I get your advice on my situation?
Please understand that I am not a psychiatric professional or a trained counselor, so there are some topics on which it would be irresponsible of me to presume I could offer advice. Furthermore, even when it comes to advice about less dire situations, if I were to give advice to everyone who asked, I’d spend a significant amount of my time doing so--especially since I want to be thoughtful and thorough. I only have so much time and energy, so while I do sincerely care about the well-being of all people, I'm afraid I can't type out text-based relationship advice for everyone who asks. I greatly appreciate you respecting my boundary on this.

But I really, really need help.
If you are in dire need of help, then I have to emphasize again that I am unqualified to support you in the way that would be needed and necessary. Please consider seeing a mental health professional in your area, and if finances are an obstacle, know that some mental health professionals will work with you on a sliding scale of payment. You can also find someone who is well-versed in matters pertaining to polyamory and other non-traditional relationships. It may take some digging to find the right person, but I encourage you to start here:

Can we chat? / What’s your Facebook account? / Snapchat? / WhatsApp?
While I periodically post on Instagram and Twitter, I choose not to spend much time on social media beyond that. I don't engage much (if at all) over DMs, and I look at comments in batches, slowly. I don't have/use Facebook, Snapchat, or WhatsApp. Thank you for understanding! 

Will you show up on my channel / podcast / show?
I'm open to discussing media invitations. The more information you can provide in advance about the nature of your invitation, the better. Please see my contact page for details. 
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